Sunday, October 04, 2009

11 Reasons He Dumped You

She Was Too Negative: All too often, I end up with the brooding, depressed, uptight type who is constantly complaining. I don't expect someone to be happy all the time, but if she makes me unhappy every time I see her, why stay with her?

SHOOT: For me it was the reason above, and she was too serious. And another one. Towards the end I simply didn't feel listened to...and nothing said seemed worth saying any more.
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Women cited the following as the most common breakup reasons:

  • He changed

  • We weren't compatible

  • He cheated on me

I Got Bored: I've read many different hypotheses on attention span, but my favorite is
(Wikipedia):

"Continuous attention span, or the amount of time a human can focus on an object without any lapse at all, is very brief and may be as short as 8 seconds. After this amount of time,
it is likely that an individual's eyes will shift focus, or that a stray thought will briefly enter
consciousness."

One of Us Was Too Serious: This could be as simple as she wanted to see me three times a week, and I only wanted to see her once a week. If she's flirting with other guys, flighty, or not as into it as I am, then I'm too serious for her.

Burnout: I'm a big believer in pacing and rhythm in dating.
I Was Tempted To Cheat:
All My Friends Broke Up With Their Girlfriends:
Divergent Lives:
Feeling Selfish:
I "Misread" My
Feelings:
My Friends Or Family Didn't Like Her:
I Took Her For Granted:
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