Showing posts with label commitment. Show all posts
Showing posts with label commitment. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 08, 2008

Headlights on a Dark Road


Examining Commitment and Focus

How can anyone travel for hundreds of miles, across countrysides seldom or never seen before, in the the dark, and reasonably expect to get there? What's more, how can we expect to travel through this dark countryside quickly, efficiently and effortlessly?

Well, we do this every day. When we drive at night, the headlights illuminate a 30-50 metre area dirtectly ahead of us. Can we see in the darkness beyond? No. But it is enough to know that we can see immediately ahead of us where we are going, and to have a map (even if just a mindmap), and confidence in one's road.

The analogy of The Road is adequate for the Journey of our Lives. While it may seem subtle and even implicit, when we drive at night we are committed to a destination, and while our focus may subconciously be that destination, while we may have it in the back of our minds and in our thoughts, our focus has to be on what we are doing right now on the road. Failure to focus jeapordises our ever reaching the destination. Failure to commit to a destination (before we drive off into the night) means we will almost certainly get lost.

The Darkness is a metaphor for the unknown, for the future. It is neither benign nor bad, it is simply what it is. But we need to illuminate our way through, and for that we need consciousness, truth, facts, ideas, impressions and visuals. The imagination, intelligence, intentions and our motivations form the filters that enlighten our journey. Our focus determines whether we distort the shadows, or to what extent we follow the white lines strapped into the dark Macadam.

Commitment is the reason behind where we need to go. Motivation is the fuel that gets us there. Both spring from Identity. Identity is who we are; our Mission and Purpose. All these things place us in a harmonious domain, or drive us towards a new environment, a scenario that we have invariably pictured or planned for. But that is not enough. Once we arrive, new courses of action, often painful decisions, have to be made. Because it is once we reach our destination that we discover the vital truth about our journey. Was the use of time and resources well used? Is it good to be where we have arrived?

Having reached one's destination, the real work begins. As Springbok coach Jake White said: to win the World Cup you have to make a decision, and then go out and get it. It's not enough to get into the Final. In the same way, Destination is about active decision-making, Dancing on Your Toes. And reality here, a win, a loss, a draw, determines how long we remain where we are, and what our next destination ought to be.

Monday, October 08, 2007

What Friends Are For


I was the topic of a lunch conversation over the weekend, and despite the flurry of back handed insults, I couldn't help smiling.

The gist of the conversation went around a statement I'd made after this year's Argus. I'd finished 5 minutes behind my brother in 3:08, and I said, evenly: "Look, it wasn't a bad performance given that I am 15 kg heavier than my boet, and I only trained a bit in the last 6 weeks."

Alex countered this argument both effectively, and unexpectedly. He said: "Ja but I beat YOU by over 20 minutes."
He went on to say this: "We might be cycling with a group in Johannesburg and if you told them your Argus time, they'd be like: 'Wow, not bad. This guy's a half decent cyclist.' But I know you a lot better than that. I remember your standards. You used to be better than me, now look at you? So sure, not a bad performance based on all your excuses, but based on you; based on who you are - or who you were - it's shocking."

How the topic came up was I was basically whining about being told I was 'fat', arguing: "Aren't you just comparing me to me a few years ago?" The reason I smiled was I realised they were right. I'd allowed my own standards to slip, and they were reminding me of this. The question we need to ask is:

Do you remember your standards? (And if not, why have you allowed them to slip, and what are you going to DO about it.)

So get ready for a hardcore surge - Springbok style - at getting back into decent shape, and some form of ascendancy. There, I've said it. Now let me go and do it.