"In fact, guys who are financially reckless share many traits with men who cheat." But you also don't want to be with a tightwad. If a dude doesn't splurge now and then, it may mean he'll be stingy in other ways, such as compromising during a fight.
NVDL: There's some good advice here.
Dating Trait #1: He Knows What He Wants Any guy you're serious about should be able to articulate his long-term goals and passions (sorry, fantasy football and Xbox don't count). He can't ally himself with you until he has a sense of how he envisions his life in the future... and how you fit in. "If a man has no idea what he wants to be when he 'grows up,' then it will be impossible for him to commit to you," says Dobransky.
Dating Trait #2: He Has a Sunny Outlook Along with having an optimistic POV, it's also crucial that the guy you're seeing can make you laugh. "It's an important stress valve for any couple," says Les Parrott, PhD, coauthor of "Trading Places."
Dating Trait #3: He's Open to Changing for You Dating Trait #4: He's Still a Little Mysterious Dating Trait #5: He's Responsible with Money "A man who doesn't track his money shows a lack of patience and self-control," says Dobransky.
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