Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Qualities that really matter in a dude when you're thinking long-term love.

"In fact, guys who are financially reckless share many traits with men who cheat." But you also don't want to be with a tightwad. If a dude doesn't splurge now and then, it may mean he'll be stingy in other ways, such as compromising during a fight.

NVDL: There's some good advice here.
Dating Trait #1: He Knows What He Wants
Any
guy you're serious about should be able to articulate his long-term
goals and passions (sorry, fantasy football and Xbox don't count). He
can't ally himself with you until he has a sense of how he envisions
his life in the future... and how you fit in. "If a man has no idea
what he wants to be when he 'grows up,' then it will be impossible for
him to commit to you," says Dobransky.
Dating Trait #2: He Has a Sunny Outlook
Along
with having an optimistic POV, it's also crucial that the guy you're
seeing can make you laugh. "It's an important stress valve for any
couple," says Les Parrott, PhD, coauthor of "Trading
Places."
Dating Trait #3: He's Open to Changing for You
Dating Trait #4: He's Still a Little Mysterious
Dating Trait #5: He's Responsible with Money
"A man who doesn't track
his money shows a lack of patience and self-control," says Dobransky.
dating couple dining while the man uses fries as fangs
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